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Survey - AB/DL Practices - 5 - Significant Others Essays

By B. Terrance Grey

Sections: Basics - media (texts) - partners - coming out (texts) - needing diapers (texts) - significant others (texts)

Edit 31 December 2016: This page was updated as part of the tenth year standards update.

50) What advice would you give to another AB/DL who was looking for someone special or just starting a relationship, or to a non-AB/DL who is in a new relationship with an AB/DL? (Optional)

Alongside the statistical data gathered in the survey's multiple choice questions, a few essay questions were included. Some of the responses for question #50 are presented below. They were manually sorted, not per a scientific procedure. Emphasis was given to answers based on experience or that touched on aspects not covered by the multiple-choice questions. Some have been edited for length. Also, some responses were split and placed in multiple categories if the division didn't substantially affect the response.

The following thoughts and advice, provided the surveyees, might or might not be applicable to your situation. Some items might be contradictory. As with all advice, your mileage may vary.

Someone for Everyone

Look Within the AB/DL/Kink Community

Look Outside the AB/DL Community

Be Open to Alternatives

Be Open About Being an AB/DL


Two-Way Streets




Don't Bother

To Partners

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